Are you missing important warning signs?
Most relationships start out well. Couples get to know each other — they talk, spend time together, enjoy each other’s company and show an interest in one another. After a while however, some relationships turn sour.
Before starting a relationship it is important for a couple to share their past experiences. A good relationship is made of love, loyalty, trust, honesty and a lot of effort is required to build it. Some fail because people stop being committed. They stop spending time together or become unfaithful to their partners. The background of a person counts a lot because one’s background can be a contributing factor to the relationship turning sour.
It is important to understand where your partner comes from. In the beginning of a relationship, partners only show their good side. Only later will a person show the negative side, which could bring misunderstandings into the relationship.” Jealousy can be a huge factoring separating couples. In some relationships jealousy is caused by one partner who feels incompetent, inferior and insecure. It can often make one act out against a partner even if the partner is innocent. In some cases jealousy arises from low self-esteem. For example, men are likely to feel less masculine when a woman is earning more money.
9 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IN TROUBLE:
1. You have a uniquely harsh or brash tone with your partner but are otherwise very pleasant with just about every other person you know or come across.
2. You hate the weekends because you feel forced to be around your partner for long periods of time and actually look forward to going back to work so you have some sort of an escape from him/her.
3. You do not kiss or show affection at all with your partner but are a affectionate with others in your life.
4. You think your partner is a push-over and is easily manipulated.
5. You openly talk about divorce and use it as a power card to manipulate your partner or get your way.
6. You threaten your wife with marrying another woman because you want to avoid divorce and the risk of losing money and your kids.
7. You can defend and find an excuse for just about any person who does wrong but can only see the negative in your partner.
8. You rarely eat a meal with your partner and are usually eating in front of the TV by yourself.
9. When you come home you purposely act busy and isolate yourself in the garage, gym, or office to avoid conversing with your partner.
Before starting a relationship it is important for a couple to share their past experiences. A good relationship is made of love, loyalty, trust, honesty and a lot of effort is required to build it. Some fail because people stop being committed. They stop spending time together or become unfaithful to their partners. The background of a person counts a lot because one’s background can be a contributing factor to the relationship turning sour.
It is important to understand where your partner comes from. In the beginning of a relationship, partners only show their good side. Only later will a person show the negative side, which could bring misunderstandings into the relationship.” Jealousy can be a huge factoring separating couples. In some relationships jealousy is caused by one partner who feels incompetent, inferior and insecure. It can often make one act out against a partner even if the partner is innocent. In some cases jealousy arises from low self-esteem. For example, men are likely to feel less masculine when a woman is earning more money.
9 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IN TROUBLE:
1. You have a uniquely harsh or brash tone with your partner but are otherwise very pleasant with just about every other person you know or come across.
2. You hate the weekends because you feel forced to be around your partner for long periods of time and actually look forward to going back to work so you have some sort of an escape from him/her.
3. You do not kiss or show affection at all with your partner but are a affectionate with others in your life.
4. You think your partner is a push-over and is easily manipulated.
5. You openly talk about divorce and use it as a power card to manipulate your partner or get your way.
6. You threaten your wife with marrying another woman because you want to avoid divorce and the risk of losing money and your kids.
7. You can defend and find an excuse for just about any person who does wrong but can only see the negative in your partner.
8. You rarely eat a meal with your partner and are usually eating in front of the TV by yourself.
9. When you come home you purposely act busy and isolate yourself in the garage, gym, or office to avoid conversing with your partner.
talking with partner and asking the key things about your partner that you know you do not want to deal with in a relationship should be discussed in the early stages of the relationship. For example you do not want someone who has a child and you never ask your partner if he has a child, high expectations of the relationship and not taking care of the relationship I think are the main courses of divorces and break ups and relationships need one to sacrifice if you are looking to receive all the time and have ur way you wont a have a happy marriage or relationship and eventually you will break up with your partner.
ReplyDeleteIts true Nandipha, its important for us to know their past experience and everything about them before starting a relationship.
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