Is this real love or are hidden agendas at play?
They may not be doing it for love – many are often attracted by living the high life, going for glamour and expensive treats which they can not afford for themselves. The trend is also influenced by young women’s failure to acknowledge that all men come with a sexual history.
When you date someone older, you run the risks of being exposed to sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV/AIDS and even unwanted pregnancies. Dating an older man for money is not the right thing to do.
Use your energy towards something that will benefit you in future, your education. Life rewards people who work hard. I spoke to a young woman who suffered the consequences of dating a man who was twice her age.
She met the man in 2009, while she was doing her matric. He told her that he had problems which couldn’t be resolved with his wife. She was so madly in love with him to the point that she could not say 'no' to anything he wanted. They later stayed together and in a few months she fell pregnant. She said that the last time she saw the man was when she told him about her pregnancy. Then she later found out that he went back to his wife.
Do you think he was in love with her? Guess what??? Sex is what he needs from you and when you get pregnant he will leave you and maybe date your friends. Older men know that young girls are precious and are longing for material things. Be careful, use your energy for the right things and work towards fulfilling your dreams, not destroying them.
The problem with us ladies is that we get into relationships and we never bother to pay attention to the person's character and all the things that will affect us in the future and woman go to bed with someone that they do not even know their last name. Then reality strikes , of course an older man is married and if he is not you might to want to know why he is not and how many children he has and chances are they are your age, what those children are going to think of you dating their father and if any man does not want to show you their family something is wrong. You want to date a older man then be mature enough to get information about him and do not even think he is going to sign everything in your name and many times he will leave you with nothing but a baby or all the headaches that woman now our days have deal with.
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